Pressures of Life...

They say, when you are of "that" age, they ask you when are you going to get attached. When you get attached, they ask, when are you going to tie the knot.. Then, comes, when are you going to get your kid? Then after 1st kid, when are you going to get your second kid, etc.

After the kids have grown up, we become the "they", cycle repeats, but this time, friends will ask us, are your kids attached, married, grandparents already, etc....

Work

Work is getting busier now. Due to many production complaints. I hope this "phase" will pass soon or I hope I can have a good holiday 12 days from now. (Thank God my phone is not on roaming.:P)

As for hubby, due to the new job rotation, he is having information overload. But I guess it's good for him because he has been complaining his brains are rotting in the previous dept. And also, this current job is similar to what he did before, just that it will be slightly on the "easier" level because of the nature of the product.

Family

We are still undecided on where to settle down. And so many issues to settle if we plan for a 2nd one. (Who to take care, bla bla bla). Getting a maid sounds good, but I will definitely not leave baby alone with her. At least, not here in Msia. Too many factors involved, wanting 2 kids or 3 kids. (Gosh, when I think of the pain back, it's still so fresh in my mind though I forgot how pain it was :P). And so, until and unless we have decided on the best way, #2 is not in the plans yet though hubby wants to be fast so that we can get over and done with the baby/kids thingy earlier the better. Also, I still have not shed enough kgs for me to pile them on again in the 2nd pregnancy. And also, brother's wedding is coming, so I do not want to look like a balloon at my ONLY brother's wedding. :D (yeah, very vain... well, after becoming a mum, we still need to maintain a little right?)

Decisions, pressures of life.... ahhhhh.. taking one step at a time. :P